I’m the girl whose bangs are too long and nail polish is chipped 75% of the time. I’m the girl who starts stripping the second she walks in the door – pants and bra off, leggings and vneck tee on. I’m more comfortable in a pair of old Nike Dunks than I am in heels, but I never fail to flat iron my hair even if I’m just staying in. I’m the least photogenic person ever and always end up making silly faces.
I know people and have acquaintances and friends, but keep my circle of close friends small. And I’m fiercely protective of them. Fair weather friends aren’t my scene and I don’t put up with bullshit.
I can run my mouth with the best of them and I am very opinionated, but I’ve learned to keep it in check. Most of the time… And I’ll be the first to admit that I’m kind of a snob. I know what I like, I know what’s good and I might be judging you for thinking otherwise. But I’ll be damned if I’m not one of the nicest and most real people you’ll ever meet.
I’m the girl who picks wine based on the prettiness of the names and labels. Most of my gadgets (MacBook, iPod, iPhone) are pink, but chances are you’ll rarely ever see me wearing the color. I love handmade and crafty things, but can’t do it myself for the life of me. I can quote Mean Girls almost word for word and do so on regular (and probably annoying) basis. I have stacks of books all over the place and can spend days holed up reading and be perfectly happy. I geek out over music and probably have the oddest collection you ever did see.
I believe pinky promises are still serious business, and that strawberry milkshakes are one of the best inventions ever. I could eat mac and cheese every day of the week, and think carbs are the WORST invention ever. I’m a sentimental kind of gal and can think of reasons to hold on to pretty much anything.
I wish more than anything I could pull off a half sleeve tattoo, but I just don’t think I’d look right. So I plan on getting several other tattoos and finding me a cute, tattooed boy instead. It’s a fair trade.
I’m the girl who gets nervous talking to new people and never know what to say for fear of sounding like an idiot. I constantly worry I’m bothering people so if I’m quiet, that’s probably why. But when I finally feel comfortable, I’d love nothing more than to sit down over drinks and talk forever.
In the past year and a half, I found myself and realized what I’m truly capable of. I’ve learned when to fight for something and when to let go. I’ve learned that sometimes when you think shit just can’t get any worse, it does. You just keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep on.
Don’t let it make you hard. Let it make you stronger.
I have.
(post idea borrowed from your favorite, wishcake)

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ohh I love this post!!! We have a lot of things in common too. When people first meet me I tend to be really quiet but once I get to know them and feel more comfortable you can’t get me to shut up! I might have to do something like this one day on my blog…
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By Carolyn on 06.03.10 4:58 pm | Permalink
hi, you’re awesome.
and yay for tattooed boys!
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By tia on 06.03.10 5:04 pm | Permalink
You are… amazing. And I adore your fierceness and everything about you
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By Doniree on 06.03.10 5:17 pm | Permalink
um. heart you. and your chipped nail polish and pretty wine. come back to la okay? sweet. thanks.
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By katelin on 06.03.10 5:32 pm | Permalink
Jamie! I love love love this. May steal the idea from you. By the way, you can totally pull of the half-sleeve so DO IT. <3
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By Liz on 06.03.10 5:55 pm | Permalink
You are more like me than I realised and this makes me happy. I think you should move to glasgow and we can be BFFs. Good. it’s settled. Hehe.
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By Paula on 06.03.10 5:58 pm | Permalink
Loved this one.
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By nancypearlwannabe on 06.03.10 6:09 pm | Permalink
i love this, and reading it i keep saying to myself “that is SO me..” so i guess we have a lot in common
and you are awesome for becoming a stronger person and reminding us that we have to do the same everyday.
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By shannon on 06.03.10 6:22 pm | Permalink
I beg to differ–I prefer chocolate milkshakes. Though…I doubt I’d turn down a strawberry one. I’ve never had one before, which is kind of crazy, and now you’ve got me thinking all about that.
You’re amazing.
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By Elizabeth on 06.03.10 7:08 pm | Permalink
“I’ve learned that sometimes when you think shit just can’t get any worse, it does. You just keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep on.
Don’t let it make you hard. Let it make you stronger.”
A-FREAKING-MEN!!! You have no idea how much I needed to read and be reminded of that today.
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By thatShortChick on 06.03.10 8:13 pm | Permalink
Um, you’re amazing and I love this post.
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By Amy --- Just A Titch on 06.03.10 8:40 pm | Permalink
“I’ve learned that sometimes when you think shit just can’t get any worse, it does. You just keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep on.”
So true.
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By Liz @ Dogs & Wine on 06.03.10 9:10 pm | Permalink
Great post! Can’t wait to see you and catch up next weekend. I’m dying to see the tattoo in person too!
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By Jessica on 06.03.10 9:17 pm | Permalink
Thanks for letting us get to know YOU better. And I think it is amazing that you know all of that about yourself at such a young age. I probably won’t know that much about me on my deathbed.
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By Anjie B. on 06.03.10 9:30 pm | Permalink
One of the things I like most about blogging is that 9 times out of 10 whatever I’m thinking a lot about is what most of the people on my Google reader are posting about. It is so wonderful to be able to see that other people are working through what I am.
This is lovely … just lovely.
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By SuperCareo on 06.03.10 10:05 pm | Permalink
Great post and wonderful declaration of yourself. It’s very powerful.
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By The Modern Gal on 06.03.10 11:11 pm | Permalink
You are simply awesome.
(And omg, mac n cheese….I haven’t eaten it in FOREVER.)
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By Mel on 06.04.10 12:35 am | Permalink
I love this post.
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By Susan on 06.04.10 6:55 am | Permalink
Forgive me for sounding all fan girl-ish, but I just had to stop for one second, pop over and say THANK YOU.
I have goosebumps.
From this line: “Don’t let it make you hard. Let it make you stronger.”
I love that. I’ll keep that in my mind forever.
You are AMAZING. ‘Nuff said.
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By Stacey Paradise on 06.04.10 8:26 am | Permalink
I love this! And I have a lot of similar aspects of me too, which is why you have been one of my favourite bloggers over the last few years. Go you, Jamie.
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By aly on 06.04.10 8:37 am | Permalink
great post. and my bangs are often too long and nail polish is usually chipped, too.
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By Ray on 06.04.10 9:55 am | Permalink
Fabulous post, Jamie! I think we could be friends.
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By Leanne on 06.04.10 11:17 am | Permalink
Mac and cheese. I love and hate you for putting that thought in my head right now.
My nail polish ALWAYS needs help and I only get my bangs trimmed when they get stuck behind my glasses. Sometimes not even then.
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By Rebekah on 06.04.10 2:02 pm | Permalink
I love this! (I start changing the minute I get in the door too).
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By Becky on 06.04.10 9:17 pm | Permalink
Very frank, open and honest. Way to just lay it out there for the world to see. You sound like a very genuine person. IMHO there are way too many fake people out there. Keep on keepin on.
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By Robert Stackhouse on 06.05.10 1:40 pm | Permalink
I’ve been reading you for a while, but this post made me stop and think “I have to comment this girl!”
Thank you for writing this. Whilst I was reading, I kept saying “that’s me…me too!”. I think you’re now one of my favourite bloggers!
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By Nicola on 06.06.10 4:46 am | Permalink
say crack again..
crack.
I love Mean Girls. What a lovely post!
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By CuppyCakes on 06.06.10 5:44 am | Permalink
Echoing the consensus that this is such a great post (I type through my own too long bangs).
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By Andrea on 06.06.10 9:20 pm | Permalink
I believe that pinky swearing is serious business too. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise
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By Nora on 06.07.10 11:41 am | Permalink
What an amazing post – I adore it and I adore that you posted it – and I am the same, I LOVE anything pink but RARELY wear it. Ever actually.
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By What She Said… | put the last word first on 06.08.10 5:54 am | Permalink
Love it!
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By Rachel on 06.08.10 6:34 am | Permalink
What a wonderful post – I love it! And I wish I could pull of a half sleeve too. I want one SO BAD, but I don’t think my little twig arms could support the look.
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By terra on 06.08.10 8:08 am | Permalink
I love this post! We’re all not perfect and I love people who accept that about themselves. Everyday when I get home from work, I always immediately change my clothes into comfortable clothes. I’d rather wear comfortable clothes than look pretty & not be comfortable.
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By steph anne on 06.11.10 1:09 am | Permalink
Wow this is my first time to your blog and I totally loved this post. I may have to borrow this idea =-)
Have a wonderful weekend!
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By Krysten on 06.11.10 9:12 pm | Permalink
“I constantly worry I’m bothering people so if I’m quiet, that’s probably why. But when I finally feel comfortable, I’d love nothing more than to sit down over drinks and talk forever”
ME TOO.
I also have a lot of pink gadgets (ipod, Iphone) but I don’t really consider myself a pink person. Pink stuff just makes me feel cheery and energized.
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By Skinny Dip on 06.14.10 9:56 am | Permalink
Fabulous! I like a girl who is real.
Also, I rarely wear pink either. Surprising, I know.
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By Janet on 06.14.10 2:28 pm | Permalink
The Pinky Swear is sacred, and so it always shall be.
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By LiLu on 06.14.10 3:03 pm | Permalink
Finally catching up on my reader and read this. Great post! I always worry that I’m bothering people and don’t talk about me or “my stuff” too! For the record, you are more than welcome to unload on me because you my dear could never be a bother!
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By nic on 06.15.10 4:55 pm | Permalink
I am in love with this post, it says some many things that I wish I could say. Its really,really great.
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By Tarver on 06.16.10 7:25 pm | Permalink
Yep, I definitely don’t regret becoming your friend. Not one bit.
Wait, a follow up q: do you think I can convince a girl to help me fund tattoos on the promise I will develop it into sleeves? Because it’s been in the plan for years. I’m just sayin’.
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By nicopolitan on 06.16.10 7:48 pm | Permalink
wow!! we are so the same! brutal but honest with an obsession with straight hair!
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By Sari on 07.02.10 1:13 am | Permalink
Not that I want to compliment myself too excessively, because I think you are awesome, but I think we might be the same person. I am feeling a strong soul-sisterly bond with you even though I only read your blog. Ya-ya.
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By On who I am « SRSLYLIZ.COM on 07.06.10 11:54 am | Permalink
I’m totally with you on pinky swears and strawberry milkshakes. And chipped nail polish and changing clothes the minute I get home from work. And the list goes on and on.
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By Thoughts Appear on 07.12.10 9:24 am | Permalink
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