Retail therapy is probably one of the best inventions ever.
No, really.
Sometimes you just need to buy shit. And then that shit makes you feel better.
This past weekend I went out to buy a new pair of boots and flats. But I happened to walk into TJ Maxx first because sometimes they just have good pieces and you get lucky. Well, I just had to do a quick run through of the handbags and then my eyes fell upon it.
THE BEST BAG IN THE ENTIRE WORLD.
(okay, maybe not world but the most perfect bag that I’ve never needed that day)
And I told twitter that I was in love but was having a hard time justifying it, you know with the whole been poor and jobless thing. So I proceeded to take many a lap around the store trying to talk myself into buying it or putting it down.
So I walked and walked around the store and then this happened:

This bag has been sitting here. Taunting me. Begging me to just take the damn tags off already. But I had to consult you all first. Here it is in all it’s purple leather, long strap AND handles WITH a zipper, roomy glory. It’s kind of everything I want in a bag that doesn’t start with “M” and end with “arc Jacobs.”

(It kind of reminds me of this Miu Miu bag I’ve been obsessed with for the past 2 years that I will probably never own until I get a sugar daddy.)
(Now accepting applications.)
So there you have it. The bag I probably should return.
Keep it or return it?
P.S. You’re fucking crazy if you think I’m going to return this. I just felt better pretending I would at least consider it. Let’s just talk about how pretty it is.
P.P.S. Don’t judge me! It wasn’t that that much.
P.P.P.S. FINE, stop pressuring me. It was $150 but it was the best goddamn $150 I have spent recently. Don’t you see how pretty it is?!
P.P.P.P.S. PURPLE LEATHER. STRAPS. HANDLE. ZIPPER. PURPLE.
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Beautiful, but I don’t know if its $150 beautiful. But it is purple….
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By Mrs Soup on 10.13.09 12:25 pm | Permalink
I bought my first Linea Pelle bag when I was jobless and poor as fuck.
It was worth every penny.
I vote keep it!
Love,
Jaime
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By Jaime @ Denim Debutante on 10.13.09 12:27 pm | Permalink
I can’t say anything… I have countless Coach bags I dont need! Keep it!
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By ReinventingAmy on 10.13.09 12:31 pm | Permalink
If it makes you happy it is worth every penny! Think of how long it will make you happy and how long you will use it! Enjoy your find!
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By Melinda on 10.13.09 12:31 pm | Permalink
I always vote for KEEP THE BAG! haha. If it helps at all, I just think you should know that purple is THE color for this season! So yeah, I think you should keep it.
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By chasingparadise on 10.13.09 12:31 pm | Permalink
$150 is not bad at all, relative to Marc Jacobs. And it’s so cute!
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By nancypearlwannabe on 10.13.09 12:36 pm | Permalink
hahaha I so knew you wouldn’t return it. BUT IT’S GORGEOUS!
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By Doniree on 10.13.09 12:37 pm | Permalink
Omg, that is fab! And be happy your dream bag was only $150. The bag I’m lusting after is $400…if only I’d worked a few weeks longer, then I could have bought it for half that with my discount
BUT since I didn’t, I have to shop vicariously through you–DON’T YOU DARE RETURN THAT BAG!
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By stealthnerd on 10.13.09 12:43 pm | Permalink
It’s pretty! And $150 isn’t THAT much for something you’ll carry all the time. I like purple. Much more fun than basic black.
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By michelle woo on 10.13.09 1:00 pm | Permalink
What good is a handbag fund if you can’t dip into it
I LOVE THE BAG – it is pure purple perfection (and a lot of alliteration)!!
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By Jennifer - Somewhere In Between on 10.13.09 1:05 pm | Permalink
It’s easier to say this since it’s YOUR $150 and not mine…
But keep that shit! It’s gorgeous.
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By Kaci on 10.13.09 1:10 pm | Permalink
From one bag obessionist to another of course I’m going to say keep it. I have to remind myself that my bag is currently OK every time I walk into TJMaxx but that didn’t stop me from the Michael Kors and Bill Blass jean purchase the other day. Love that store…
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By Toe on 10.13.09 1:22 pm | Permalink
I’m so sad I wasn’t able to see you and have some retail therapy with you while I was in Chicago. Promise me we can plan something and do retail therapy soon.
I also am a big fan – the feeling of walking through aisles of things you can’t “afford” but could get if you wanted to is so amazing.
As are you.
And the bag.
You more.
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By Katie on 10.13.09 2:01 pm | Permalink
I would have totally spanked that bag’s ass too
…Uh… I mean bought it?
It’s awesome.
And I cannot agree more about the siren’s song of TJ Maxx and retail therapy in general when I’m pissed or something. It is amazing.
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By Jen on 10.13.09 2:01 pm | Permalink
Of course, KEEEP ITTTTT.
If you purchase something and it makes you feel insta-fabulous just by wearing it and holding it then you definitely made a right decision.
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By andhari on 10.13.09 2:24 pm | Permalink
Um. Keep it and stop feeling guilty yo!
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By Mel on 10.13.09 2:36 pm | Permalink
I bought a BCBG dress that I didn’t need because I want to feel extra pretty when I meet my boyfriend’s ex. Now I have to buy shoes and jewelry to match, but I don’t regret it one bit! Retail therapy definitely works and I’m sure you won’t regret buying that bag either!
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By Leahchristine on 10.13.09 2:40 pm | Permalink
Dude, I had a moment like that at Marshall’s a month or so ago – I walked in and this bag SPOKE to me. Like, jumped in my arms and had to go home with me. I so shouldn’t have been spending money on a bag, but it’s still my favorite, gets dragged EVERYWHERE, and I get a ton of compliments.
Sometimes when it’s right you just know!
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By April on 10.13.09 3:34 pm | Permalink
lol! I would keep it, it’s obviously making you very, extremely happy =)
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By Kyla Roma on 10.13.09 3:38 pm | Permalink
How am I to talk you out of a purple purse? Anytime you come across one that’s remotely cute it has to come home with you.
Seriously, my purple purse has died and I can’t find the right one to replace it to save my life.
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By Cass on 10.13.09 3:47 pm | Permalink
Don’t you dare return that bag. It is GORGEOUS!
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By Amber from Girl with the Red Hair on 10.13.09 4:25 pm | Permalink
You’re obviously in love with it, so you MUST keep it!
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By lollygagger on 10.13.09 4:32 pm | Permalink
haha i heart you. totally keep it, it is divine and awesome and chic and superb and all sorts of other adjectives! woo love it.
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By katelin on 10.13.09 5:01 pm | Permalink
If it makes you feel good, I’m all for keeping it.
Plus its cute…
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By Paula on 10.13.09 5:31 pm | Permalink
I’m glad you’re keeping it! It’s AMAZING!
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By Walking on Sunshine on 10.13.09 5:37 pm | Permalink
Don’t even THINK about returning it. It’s adorable and it will completely make your day every time you step out of the house with it. That, my friend, is priceless.
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By elle michelle on 10.13.09 6:04 pm | Permalink
I love retail therapy, but then I end up feeling worse because I spent money that I shouldn’t have….
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By Angela on 10.13.09 6:08 pm | Permalink
I love it! Now, I’ve never spent that much on a purse, but if it makes you $150 worth of happy, then I think it’s worth it!
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By Erin on 10.13.09 6:36 pm | Permalink
You know I am the wrong person to ask this, but keep it. You love it and will be sad without it.
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By Jessica on 10.13.09 7:30 pm | Permalink
I fucking LOVE everything about that bag and I am insanely jealous… Seriously. Does that help at all?
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By Kimmers on 10.13.09 7:36 pm | Permalink
You obviously had enough money or credit to get it out the door – if it makes you happy, keep it. We all deserve a treat now and then. Besides when you get to be my age and have kids you won’t be able to justify it (I say as I drool over a similarly priced bag that will just get filled up with goldfish and cheerios and chewed on and drooled on and dragged around anyway).
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By Michelle Smiles on 10.13.09 8:42 pm | Permalink
Purple?? Yes!
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By Alyssa on 10.13.09 8:46 pm | Permalink
it’s GORGEOUS! and i’m so glad you are keeping it!!!
awesome bags make everything better.
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By alexa - cleveland's a plum on 10.13.09 8:47 pm | Permalink
Love it! You better have taken those tags off by now!!!
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By Becky on 10.13.09 8:56 pm | Permalink
LOVE IT.
purple and grey are SO my go-to fall colors.
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By tia on 10.14.09 1:27 am | Permalink
Very pretty, but $150??! I wont spend more than $20 on a purse…
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By Jackie on 10.14.09 5:19 am | Permalink
My purse fund is topped out at $30 (Target is my BFF), but if I could, I’d get that. Keep it!
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By Andrea on 10.14.09 8:59 am | Permalink
um…
1) love the bag
2) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOvUbV_WWb0
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By lovesfool on 10.14.09 9:49 am | Permalink
um you had me at the words PURPLE and LEATHER.
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By thatShortChick on 10.14.09 10:04 am | Permalink
honestly, darling, i have no room to judge anyone on purse purchasing. granted i’ve never paid a hundred and fifty, but i DO buy a new purse probably 4 times a year. sooo… yeah.
i think it’s fab, and if it makes you happy, more the better!
also, when you find a bag that makes your heart sing and the zipper isn’t a piece of shit, buy it.
that’s my rule. live by it.
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By raeleighjo/bigskygirl on 10.14.09 11:08 pm | Permalink
KEEP IT! If you return it… it’ll haunt you in your dreams and everywhere you go!
And that reminds me…. I need a new purse. Thanks
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By steph anne on 10.15.09 12:24 am | Permalink
If it makes you happy, keep it. End of story.
And retail therapy is the best kind. Rather than paying some idiot $50/hour to listen to my nonsense, I go buy myself something pretty. Works for me, and a much better use of the little cash I do have.
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By MinD on 10.16.09 11:17 am | Permalink
Honestly? I say keep it. It feels good to splurge every now and then, and a purse like that is something you’ll have for years. Also, I think it’s a good idea to splurge on things like this while you can – I mean, if I were to try to do something like that nowadays, my husband would probably leave me in a hot second.
Well, okay, maybe not literally, but there would definitely be threats.
Heehee.
Enjoy the bag, my dear!
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By wishcake on 10.17.09 12:13 pm | Permalink
Good for you, f’it. I just got a new purse too, about to blog abotu it as well.
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By Tara on 10.20.09 12:53 pm | Permalink
OMG – LOVE LOVE the bag. I’ve been on the hunt for a drop dead gorgeous bag like the one you just picked up. Don’t you just love TJ Maxx!
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By Miss Prissy Paige on 10.20.09 6:17 pm | Permalink
Ugh. I’m a sensible person and I have made purchases that I have had to return. REALITY: no job. No buy. Think of the things that are BETTER than that (HERMES bag?) that you will be able to buy when you are more solvent.
slap me. I’m so dang optimistic.
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By Kimp on 10.24.09 6:01 am | Permalink
I can't say anything… I have countless Coach bags I dont need! Keep it!
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By ReinventingAmy on 10.30.09 7:52 pm | Permalink
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