Hi! My name is Tia and I write Clever Girl Goes Blog. When Jamie asked me to do a guest post for her while she soaked up the rays in sunny Florida, I jumped at the chance. A feature appearance at The House of Lovely? Yes please, sign me up.
If you didn’t know (like, as in, you might be living under a rock), the other day was Jamie’s 25th birthday. She wasn’t ESPECIALLY excited about it, which is something I can totally relate to, although her reasons might differ from mine.
(As in, she’s probably not crazy and doesn’t harbor major phobias about getting older.)
(And seriously? If I could have, I would’ve sent her balloons and flowers and 19 puppies and Edward Cullen. But I don’t know where she lives.)
Anyhoodle. I can sympathize with Jamie about lack of enthusiasm towards birthdays, because mine is next week.
(I accept gifts in forms of jewelry, cash, and ponies.)
Last year, I had a VERY hard time with turning 27. I dreaded it. I couldn’t shake the feeling that it was an age that someone ELSE was, not me. I know that probably doesn’t make much sense, but for me, 27 was iconic and scary.
Now, as I’m staring 28 in the face, and strangely enough, it doesn’t bother me at all. A couple weeks ago, I was waiting for the anxiety to settle in. I figured any minute, I’d be chasing Hubs around the house with a knife, yelling “REDRUM!” because he dared to bring up the idea of a birthday party for me.
(Best. Wife. EVER.)
Whatever the reason, 28 is looking just fine to me. I’m embracing it. It doesn’t scare me. I’ve bested The Crazy. 28 seems settled, and on the right track. Sure, it lacks the cute intonations of, say, 23, but it’s not a bad place to be. I’m okay with it.
Besides, I got carded twice last week, so I figure my age-obsession is all in my head.
(Thank you, cute pizza place waiter!)
In today’s society, when people are completely focused on diets and botox and cougars and wrinkle treatments, it’s no wonder that a girl might get a little sidetracked and not realize the BEST thing about getting older: MORE TIME TO MAKE FRIENDS = MORE PRESENTS.
So if you find yourself with the birthday blues, just remember that.
And let’s be real, shall we? The WORST thing about getting older, for me?

Feeling creepier every year about lusting after a seventeen year old undead high schooler.
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Tia, only you would consider the worse part about getting older is you feel like you’re perving on an over hyped glittery vampire. Who plays baseball like Thor.
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By Kendall on 04.02.09 9:11 am | Permalink
I don’t feel bad ( yet!
) But I guess I will be soon. OOOOOHHH. I cant believe the first word came in my head when seeing that pic is “ooh hubby” WTF lol
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By andhari on 04.02.09 9:31 am | Permalink
But the thing is, you don’t actually feel creepy about it at all, do you?
THAT’s the problem.
I kid…you’re normal.
I kid…you’re a little obsessed.
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By Ben on 04.02.09 9:34 am | Permalink
I’m 28 and only feel mildly creepy when watching Twilight, drooling over RP…but it could be the hand down the pants. Shrug.
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By Meghan on 04.02.09 10:17 am | Permalink
I feel dirty every time I look at him.
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By Jossie Posie on 04.02.09 11:01 am | Permalink
Technically, Edward is like 80 years older than you, so there is no need to feel creepy! Let the lusting continue!
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By Amanda on 04.02.09 11:24 am | Permalink
I am not sure if I will ever feel weird for lusting after Edward… haha!
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By Lauren's Bite on 04.02.09 11:42 am | Permalink
tia you are gonna gift edward, last time i checked he was yours forever, LOLX
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By Now on 04.02.09 12:23 pm | Permalink
Tia! No wonder I adore you….we are both April birthdays
and Aries if you follow that sorta thing. I turn a mere 24, but I don’t think the number you are turning is what gets to people. It’s where they thought they’d be in life by that number and how close (or far off) they are that gives them anxiety.
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By Brianna on 04.02.09 1:21 pm | Permalink
i love your writing style. witty and funny. Advance happy birthday to you! and haven’t you heard? 30s is the new 20s so technically you are still in your teens =)!
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By freeteyme on 04.02.09 1:35 pm | Permalink
I’ll be 30 next week. My husband calls me a cougar because I’m in love with Edward Cullen.
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By hotpants™ on 04.02.09 1:51 pm | Permalink
LOL… I lust over him too… You’re not alone there!
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By Christina on 04.02.09 3:13 pm | Permalink
Ahh… You have no idea how happy seeing Edward Cullen four times on my bloroll has made me today…
Happy Birthday for next week Tia! =)
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By Nicole on 04.02.09 3:53 pm | Permalink
just keep reminding yourself that he’s actually 108, and damn he’s looking GREAT for his age
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By cavy on 04.02.09 3:53 pm | Permalink
Tia – If you were the only woman over the age of say, 24, that lusted after him, then you’d have cause for concern. Seeing how there are at least tens of thousands of women who covet him, I think you’re ok. Plus, I love him and I’m older than you, if only by a couple of years!
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By Erica/Ms. Salti on 04.02.09 5:51 pm | Permalink
This was cute! I am also 27 and had a tough(ish) time with it. I think 30 is going to be really tough, although people that boo hoo about their age kind of bother me so I’m trying really hard not to be one of those! You know, those people that get really down and fish for compliments? Yeah, they make me want to go crazy.
::sigh::: Edward Cullen, I dream about you.
Just joking.
Maybe.
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By Amber on 04.02.09 10:42 pm | Permalink
Fantastic post, Tia! Cute and hilarious as always!
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By Karen on 04.02.09 11:37 pm | Permalink
Ha, what if a bunch of bloggers actually sent you ponies? Can you imagine?
Happy almost birthday. And good job getting me one step closer to reading my first Twilight book.
I know, I know.. but I’m finally watching American Idol! Baby steps, no?
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By nicoleantoinette on 04.03.09 1:20 am | Permalink
Happy (belated and early) Birthday you two!
Don’t feel bad about lusting after the teenage vampire. I was out with a few girlfriends the other night and our single friend spotted a really good looking guy from across the bar. They hit it off and hung out the whole time we were at the bar. When he took out his wallet to pay for their drinks she noticed his real license (next to the FAKE one) and he was 17! My 24 year old friend was hitting on a 17 YEAR OLD.
You better believe we’re never going to let her forget it.
P.S. I always thought of 28 as being a great age
Enjoy it!
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By Jacqueline @ Miss Musing on 04.03.09 8:27 am | Permalink
Cute post, I enjoyed this!! I’m a first timer to this blog. And will be frequently visiting yours as well, Tia. Don’t we all wish we could have an Edward….*off to daydream world*
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By Ashley on 04.03.09 10:03 am | Permalink
I’m going to be 26 in 44 days, and I’m crazy in love with Edward Cullen. I can admit it.
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By Jaime @ Fast Times on 04.03.09 12:46 pm | Permalink
Hi Tia,
I would have thought you’d wish for Edward for your birthday ;D
And may I add…I’m 32 and lusting as well…though with his real age being 108, I’d say he’s well within the limits…
Great blog as usual!!!!
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By Vic on 04.04.09 1:55 pm | Permalink
When you get into your early thirties like me Tia- You will focus on the fact that Edward is sctually over 100…MUCH older that you OR me…heehee…and that whole intoxicating, hymnotizing power of his- really not to be prevented. As you mentioned- an excellent skincare regimen is also key… Practice safe sun x-)
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By Gigi-Gray on 04.05.09 2:24 pm | Permalink
I’ve been slightly freaking about turning twenty five his month. This was just what I needed.
I’m still freaking.
I feel a little better about doing that.
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By Just Playing Pretend on 04.05.09 2:26 pm | Permalink
Birthday anxiety got me too. Last year when I turned 24 I was shocked. I can definitely relate. I’ll be turning 25 this July and well I’m just getting used to being 24. tsk tsk…
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By Chinkygirlmel on 04.06.09 12:48 am | Permalink
Don’t feel so bad.. hes actually older than you…
and sooooo incredibly hot!
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By Nicole on 04.21.09 9:51 pm | Permalink
Hi Tia,
I would have thought you'd wish for Edward for your birthday ;D
And may I add…I'm 32 and lusting as well…though with his real age being 108, I'd say he's well within the limits…
Great blog as usual!!!!
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